Inspiring Stories: Tell Your Story

Picture this: a man is in a hospital bed. Through darkness, he hears a female voice: ‘Sir, please, don’t be alarmed. There was an accident. A bomb in your car…. You lost your right arm.’

IMG_3041The voice disappears, and the man rejoices. ‘It’s only an arm. I’m alive! It’s only one arm.’
As time passes, the joy gives way to pain, especially when he gets a letter from his comrades who pledge to avenge him. ‘Vengeance? How is it supposed to make me feel better? When we all live in peace, roses and lilies will grow out of my arm.’

He recovers, leaves the hospital, and continues his efforts at liberating South Africa.
This man is Albie Sachs, a lawyer, writer, and freedom fighter during the lead up to the overthrow of the apartheid regime in South Africa.

It so happens that one day he meets the man who put the bomb in his car. His name is Henry. Henry craves forgiveness, but the man says ‘I don’t have an arm to shake your hand. Perhaps if you go to the Truth Commission, this may change.’

Meanwhile, this man writes his memoir which is then turned into a movie.  On the premier night of the movie, he enters a room, and someone calls him by name. He turns around and it’s Henry.

‘I did it! I went to the Truth Commission. I told them everything!’ Henry seems lively and transformed by this experience.

The man extends his healthy arm and shakes Henry’s hand.

‘Will Henry be my best friend? No. I wouldn’t call him and say let’s go to the movies tonight. But if he sits next to me on a bus, I may ask him ‘How’s it going, Henry?’’

This is a snippet of a presentation Albie gave to us at a recent academic conference in Ukraine. To be honest, I did not expect to hear this speech. Perhaps other participants didn’t either. I don’t know how long the standing ovation lasted, but you don’t often feel inspired to live to the fullest and serve the world after an academic presentation. This one has changed me. In a good way.

So much so that a few hours later when I was making my presentation, I took a risk. I could have just stuck to the academic side of things and delivered the bare bones of my paper. Instead, I told a personal story which explained my interest in this particular topic. The atmosphere in the room felt electric. I don’t think I could have made a similar impact by just sticking to the analysis of the European Court of Human Rights’ jurisprudence.

Our stories are important.

They bring us alive.

They bring alive what we do.

We are wired to learn through stories.

They help others too.

Stories are medicine for our souls.

So, every time you have an opportunity, tell your story. Not in a random and self-centred way. No. Weave it into what you do. Make connections. Chances are you have personal reasons to do what you do. Oh, and it doesn’t have to be a whole book. It could be just a relevant snippet of your history.

The effect of story-telling on other people is palpable.

 

 

11 thoughts on “Inspiring Stories: Tell Your Story

  1. Hi Gulara, I’ve been missing you and wondering where you’d gone. Obviously it was my “Follow” that had gone. I haven’t been receiving notifications of your posts and assumed you’d been busy (which I see is also partially true). Apologies for not visiting more often. Hopefully the situation is now rectified.
    This is a very inspiring post, by the way. Thanks for sharing your story of Albie Sachs.

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    • I’ve missed you too, Norah, and I’m sorry I haven’t been around to say hello either. It’s been manic here, to say the least. I know everyone is busy, but honestly this kind of busy that I’m doing now is not sustainable…. It should improve from the end of September, but before then….
      Thank you for reading Albie’s story. I loved it so much. I was moved to tears re-telling it since I’ve been back. Hope all is well in your life.

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    • Thank you, Louise, it was an amazing experience. Just being in the presence of someone like him is transformative in its own right.
      I’m really getting into story-telling these days – both at work, in my presentations and on the blog too. It’s something that really brings me alive.
      Thank you so much for reading and your kind comment.

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  2. What a great and wonderful story. I am very touched the way you encourage us to tell, to write and to peel of that layer of feeling not interesting enough to tell our stories. Thank you for supporting us. Take care of yourself. Love xxx

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    • Thank you, Marije, I’m so glad this resonated with you. Every time I speak to people and learn more of their story, I realise that we all have amazing and inspiring stories to tell. Thank you for reading. Love xxx

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